When you think what a true friend is, do you really think about the most important things?

Do you realize that in today's often hard and difficult world, sometimes the only thing we ever have to fall back on are our friends?  They can be there to give you strength when you feel you have no where to turn.  They are rocks on which we lean when we feel we can't stand on our own.  They are there to stick up for you when you need help or there to catch you when you fall.  They are there to provide love and support when your heart aches for whatever reason.  To understand how you feel sometimes when people like parents or girlfriends/boyfriends just don't catch on to the way you are feeling.  A true friend should be able to listen to you and be truthful about their opinions when they try to help.  That is what true friends are really for.....

True friends will not turn their back on you when times get tough.  They are there unconditionally and always offer to help even though sometimes it may compromise their own situations.  Whether it be a phone call in the middle of the night, someone to talk to, giving you the last dollar in their pocket to make sure you don't go short, giving you a drive when you are stuck....all the small things that many consider trivial.  If you recall a saying "Do unto others as you'd have done to you", this is a blueprint that should be followed by all people in every walk of life.  Especially by a true friend.  Those who can follow true to this saying are truly special people and in most cases are appreciated by all who meet them.  In turn, they appreciate those who appreciate them.  This is what true friends are for......this is what they do......

If anyone has ever heard the story of how  geese live together, they should understand how true friends stick together.  "A flock of geese were flying south for the winter in a V-Formation, when one of the geese fell injured.  Of this large flock, a group of geese left the formation to be at the fallen goose's side.  They stayed with this injured goose until he either died, or could become well enough to fly again.  This fallen goose eventually was well enough to fly once again, and with the smaller group who accompanied him, they all left together to resume their journey to the South to join the others.  If geese can do this so selflessly as birds, why can't we as humans always do the same?  This is what dedication and honor is all about, This is what community, what  Friendship is....
To know you have 1, 2, 3 or even 11 more shoulders to lean or cry on, to know you have 11 other people to laugh with, to know you have 11 more people who think about you, to know you have 11 more hearts to beat for you to make you stronger is motivation enough to get the best out of life and thrive to do your best to live it with the support of others....This is what friends can do for you...

When we say to get the most out of life, usually what we refer to is just having pure fun.  To have the kind of people in your life that you can laugh and carry on with....the kind you can enjoy doing just about anything with are your friends.  Going out to party, playing sports, or even just a regular day on a sunny summer day where there is nothing more to do than just relax, barbeque and mess around in the pool.  Forget about the complexities of life and just purely enjoy the moment for what it is.  Friends do this.....

When you think of what you consider a true friend to be.....what sticks out most in your mind?  Is it the way this person always helps you when you need him?  Is it the way this person would give you a moment of his time whenever you ask him for it? Is it how he goes out of his way to make you laugh whether it be out of the blue or because you are down?  Is it because he has always been a rock both physically and emotionally to look up to?  Is it because he works hard at everything he does and takes pride in being the best friend he can possibly be?  Is it because he takes time out to make sure there is a balance between a family, a job, a girlfriend and of course his friends?  Is it because you know that whatever you do for him whether the favor is big or small......YOU KNOW he is thinking of you because there is no question he'd return the favor if you needed it? Does any of this sound familiar to you?  Do these examples remind you of any of your true friends or how you would wish your friend could be like?  Is this a true friend.....?

To me, one of the biggest reasons I have the best friends in the world, is because of friends like Warren Poirier.  Everything example set or reason mentioned above mirrors some point in his life or our friendship with Warren as a group. His ability to make us all laugh, his huge heart, his strong physical presence or even just him always lending a helping hand whenever needed are the most defining qualities of him.  People in this world like Warren should far outweigh the number of those who are negative, but at times cannot.  With the heaviest of hearts and greatest sorrow I regret to say that after a long week of fighting and hanging on, the evening of November 24th.....with all his family and friends at his side....Warren left us.  The battle he fought so tirelessly was eventually decided in God's hands.  He was one of the most courageous and strong people I have ever known and he will be terribly missed.

 

Since this site has gone up, there has been so many prayers, so much support, so much concern and ultimately, so much togetherness.  Through all the laughter, the pain and the sorrow, Warren's family and friends have thrived on the support given by all of you.  In doing this, you are all helping to not only ease the pain of the loss, but also showing yourselves and everyone around you what it means to be a true friend.  I speak on behalf of everyone who was close to Warren during his life in saying to NOT hesitate in telling those you care for most how you feel.  If you feel down, read some of the touching messages left by hundreds of people showing that they care.  It has been truly therapeutic to us all and can also be for someone else who may hurt.  With Warren now up in heaven, we have another Angel at God's side we can pray to.  Care and compassion were also one of Warren's many qualities and you should all be proud of yourselves for being able to do for Warren's family and friends......what he has always done for us.  Something that will surely never be forgotten.

 

In life, we have lost one of the most beautiful, caring, strong and and influential people I have ever known.  Warren thrived to be the best at everything he did in life.  Whether it be as a son, a brother, a friend, a boyfriend or even with his electrical apprenticeship....he never settled for being second best. In spirit, we have gained one more angel to watch down on us and guide us along the rocky road of life, which can have some very hard turns.  Warren also knew this but just like the rest of us, took life in stride and tried his best to enjoy it.  He had a very long and fulfilling 21 years with us and as terrible as this loss is, we will all remain together to remember him in all his good times, love him and carry on in life in his footsteps...ones which will be hard to fill.  This site, which was intended as a motivator for him, must now become a dedication and rightfully so.  God Bless you Warren, we will forever love and miss you......

 


Our prayers and deepest sympathies go out to Stan, Valerie, Leslie, Brennan, Garrett  Andree, and Lisa.  We share your pain and promise to be here for you whenever times get tough and in life in general.  Throughout this whole ordeal we have witnessed unparralled strength and hope because of all of you; only because of it, we have also been able to make it through this ordeal.  Be strong....and God Bless all of you....


"Where Are You Now?"
- Kris Campbell -

Have you ever had a dream so real,
A dream not by chance or mistake.
Where emotions are so strong you feel,
And you just wish you'd never awake.

For many who have come and gone,
This thought for us just falls true.
To meet one more time is what I long,
Because these dreams I have are of you.

But.......Where Are You Now???

To think back to all those happier days,
Where times were so fun and so and free.
That memory in my head just always stays,
Of those great times with you and me.

But.......Where Are You Now???

Looking back on our time together,
I know that I have no regrets.
Being without you now seems like forever,
You are someone I can never forget.

But.......Where Are You Now???

Right now I now know where you are,
Sometimes I don't know where to start.
But deep down I'll never have too look far,
You will forever be here in my heart.

"Always"
- Dan O'Connell-

  When times get tough in this life of ours,
As often times they do.
You should know I'm always around,
To help you make it through.

So lean on me when you are weak,
And need some time to mend.
My hand is always there to hold,
Because I'll always be your friend.

I won't leave you alone to fight,
When things are at their worst.
To show how much I love you,
I'd want to be there first.

The time has been so long down here,
Since you have been away.
There's an emptiness that haunts me,
But I know that it won't stay.

For soon the sun will shine again,
And tears will fall no more.
The rest of your life is waiting,
Just outside your door.

But however long that it may take,
For all this rain to end.
You take shelter here with me
Because I'll always be your friend.

 

"My Sacrifice"
- Creed -


Hello my friend, we meet again
It's been awhile, where should we begin?
Feels like forever
Within my heart a memory
A perfect love that you gave to me
Oh, I remember

When you are with me I'm free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My Sacrifice

We've seen our share of ups and downs
Oh how quickly life can turn around
In an instant
It feels so good to realize
What's in yourself and within your mind
Let's find peace there

When you are with me I'm free
I'm careless, I believe
Above all the others we'll fly
This brings tears to my eyes
My Sacrifice

I just want to say hello again
I just want to say hello again
 

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This page was created as a dedication to my dear friend Warren....God Bless You & Rest In Peace Big Guy!  Love,  KRIS